Healer Wisdom Blog

1. High anxiety around life and living.  Hard on themselves.  Looking for answers in the wrong places.  Living in the wrong place /town/ city/ state.  Their energy is out of resonance with their place of residence.  Hates being seen.  Believes that if they are seen no one will love them.  Holds the wrong things to [...]

Ancestral hidden shame.  Possible fear of judgment if someone knew their truth.  An ancestor’s heart was broken (probably a failed romance).  This heart break may have been passed to their children’s children. They may be keeping a secret so that people will not see their vulnerability.  They are afraid to let someone in that close.  [...]

1. Childlike approach used to manipulate and control the world around them. Doesn’t hear what other people try to tell them in regard to the need to change who they are. Wants people to be subservient to their needs. Wants to be left alone when their needs are not met–sulk. Sulking is used as [...]

1. Incorrect assumptions about life.  Holds hate.  No way to understand why their attitudes don’t work. Feels out of control and nothing is safe.  Wants to be allowed to do what they want to do without ramifications and resent being told they are wrong.  Holds anger at parents.  Needs to be patronized(revered) as the holder [...]

1. Fixed ideas that make for inflexible decisions and approaches to life.  Holds others accountable -to blame-for the bad things that happen in one’s life.  Unyielding in the exchange of ideas.  Wants people to focus on their authority.  Does not want an alternative pose.  Hollowness of nature no real depth of emotions.
2. Jumps to conclusions [...]

Tolle, Eckhart  The Power of Now.  Novato, California: New World Library and Vancouver, British Columbia: Namaste Publishing, 2004
Hay, Louise L.  You Can Heal Your Life.  Carlsbad, California: Hay House, Inc. 1987
Noontil, Annette The Body is the Barometer of The Soul: So be Your Own Doctor II.
Victoria, Australia. Brumby Books, 2006
Stibal, Vianna. Go Up and Work [...]

Locked in a paradigm of safety before the baby was born.  Now the infant represents anything but safe.  The infant represents the unknown and they are now responsible for this life.  There is a deep fear of the darkness of becoming nothing…the phrase ‘at the edge of the abyss’ came up during the information gathering.  [...]

Longing to be somewhere else and knowing that you can’t (self imposed rules).  Journey not taken—holding yourself to a different standard than others.  Needing to prove yourself.  Not yielding to your needs.  You get up every morning and can’t face your true self.

Hoping that some miracle will come along and make your decision for you.  [...]

Hard to get to know. Pushes people away. Afraid to let people into their heart. Projects a neediness to the people around them. They need to be told they are loved. But it is like filling a bottomless well. Short tempered.
Wants a justification for everything. Nothing is safe to know unless there is concrete proof [...]