Healer Wisdom Blog

Simon And Evette Rose will be teaching Level 1, 2 and Manifesting & Abundance August 28-September 5, 2009  For additional details you can go to http://www.referencepointtherapy.com.

Sex is wrong
I am guilty because of sex
Sex is bad
People who have sex are evil
People who have sex outside of marriage break the covenant with God
I have broken my vows with God
Sex is dirty
Sex is abnormal
My body is dirty
I have sinned
I am dirty/ unclean
People who have sex must be punished
I must be punished for [...]

1. High anxiety around life and living.  Hard on themselves.  Looking for answers in the wrong places.  Living in the wrong place /town/ city/ state.  Their energy is out of resonance with their place of residence.  Hates being seen.  Believes that if they are seen no one will love them.  Holds the wrong things to [...]

1.    I am shamed (what is the shame about)
2.    I’m a fraud
3.    I am not of pure blood
4.    I must keep the secret
5.    I must hide who I really am
6.    My ancestors betrayed their people
7.    If people knew the truth about me they would reject me
8.    I am powerless to change things
9.    I don’t trust [...]

Ancestral hidden shame.  Possible fear of judgment if someone knew their truth.  An ancestor’s heart was broken (probably a failed romance).  This heart break may have been passed to their children’s children. They may be keeping a secret so that people will not see their vulnerability.  They are afraid to let someone in that close.  [...]

1. Everything must be done my way
2. Change is dangerous
3. I deeply resent ________________
4. My life is hopeless
5. I might as well die, it’s hopeless
6. Death would be preferable to living any longer
7. I am always right and don’t need the opinions of others
8. I want to die
9. I can’t change things so I might [...]

1. Childlike approach used to manipulate and control the world around them. Doesn’t hear what other people try to tell them in regard to the need to change who they are. Wants people to be subservient to their needs. Wants to be left alone when their needs are not met–sulk. Sulking is used as [...]

Listen with your heart
Compassion
Forgiveness
Connecting to your heart
Walk in the shoes of another
Know the purpose for rules
In the divine flow
What the ONENESS feels like
Make a commitment and be safe
Satisfaction of achievement
Live without feeling the world owes you
See the world through the eyes of compassion
Release old hurts
Let go of what no longer serves you
Safe with your feelings
Allow [...]

I am better than everyone else
Everyone else is wrong
Why should I care about anyone else?  They don’t care about me.
I resent people in authority
I resent authority
I hate ____________
I resent my mother/father/who else?
The world is not safe
I must be respected
I know more than other people
People are stupid
The world owes me
I shouldn’t have to work for what [...]

1. Incorrect assumptions about life.  Holds hate.  No way to understand why their attitudes don’t work. Feels out of control and nothing is safe.  Wants to be allowed to do what they want to do without ramifications and resent being told they are wrong.  Holds anger at parents.  Needs to be patronized(revered) as the holder [...]